Comments on: Jersey Shore http://www.cassandragorgeous.com/2009/12/28/jersey-shore/ sex.    like you never expected.    so very san francisco. Sat, 14 Jan 2012 06:41:43 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Stout Man http://www.cassandragorgeous.com/2009/12/28/jersey-shore/comment-page-1/#comment-1606 Stout Man Fri, 08 Jan 2010 23:12:51 +0000 http://www.cassandragorgeous.com/?p=1003#comment-1606 Sounds like Guido is just a "user". Tries to get what he can for as little as he can. I'd tell him (I guess via text) "more power to ya babe, if you can get it for free, but I'm worth far more than that." Love ya babe. --------------- Stout Man! How's Portland, baby? *love* right back at ya! I hope I see you sometime in this new year and you REALLY service me! kisses, Cass Sounds like Guido is just a “user”. Tries to get what he can for as little as he can. I’d tell him (I guess via text) “more power to ya babe, if you can get it for free, but I’m worth far more than that.” Love ya babe.
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Stout Man! How’s Portland, baby? *love* right back at ya! I hope I see you sometime in this new year and you REALLY service me! kisses, Cass

]]> By: Brian http://www.cassandragorgeous.com/2009/12/28/jersey-shore/comment-page-1/#comment-1560 Brian Sun, 03 Jan 2010 22:48:37 +0000 http://www.cassandragorgeous.com/?p=1003#comment-1560 Some guys like Guido dig deep holes for themselves just to climb out of them. He probably had in mind all along to put himself in a position in which he would need to practically be humiliated befor you would reconsider him. The best thing you could have done for him is play it cool as you did. It just makes him want you all that much more. Yep, he's a jerk with a quirk. He doesn't care whether he f**ks up a womans self esteem in order to gratify himself through his penance (crawling back to her is part of a sexual thrill). He even may get off debasing himself and the woman. Well, maybe this description doesn't fit Guido perfectly but I'm sure it fits some to the men you've met. Just file Guido in your Encyclopedia of Jerks. Brian --------------- I hear you Brian. Too much mind games! I thought the whole point of paying for sex and getting paid for sex was to have fun without playing games. Loser, indeed. *muah* C Some guys like Guido dig deep holes for themselves just to climb out of them. He probably had in mind all along to put himself in a position in which he would need to practically be humiliated befor you would reconsider him. The best thing you could have done for him is play it cool as you did. It just makes him want you all that much more.

Yep, he’s a jerk with a quirk. He doesn’t care whether he f**ks up a womans self esteem in order to gratify himself through his penance (crawling back to her is part of a sexual thrill). He even may get off debasing himself and the woman.

Well, maybe this description doesn’t fit Guido perfectly but I’m sure it fits some to the men you’ve met. Just file Guido in your Encyclopedia of Jerks.

Brian
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I hear you Brian. Too much mind games! I thought the whole point of paying for sex and getting paid for sex was to have fun without playing games. Loser, indeed. *muah* C

]]> By: Ruby http://www.cassandragorgeous.com/2009/12/28/jersey-shore/comment-page-1/#comment-1551 Ruby Sun, 03 Jan 2010 06:05:36 +0000 http://www.cassandragorgeous.com/?p=1003#comment-1551 What a fucking loser. Basura indeed. -Ruby ------------------ And the thing is, this shit obviously works on girls! There must be a reason why he keeps doing it and why he STILL thinks I will have sex with him. Too bad I've got a bigger dick than him. And I'm NOT going to stick him with it! Cass What a fucking loser. Basura indeed.

-Ruby
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And the thing is, this shit obviously works on girls! There must be a reason why he keeps doing it and why he STILL thinks I will have sex with him. Too bad I’ve got a bigger dick than him. And I’m NOT going to stick him with it! Cass

]]> By: Ian http://www.cassandragorgeous.com/2009/12/28/jersey-shore/comment-page-1/#comment-1510 Ian Wed, 30 Dec 2009 13:59:29 +0000 http://www.cassandragorgeous.com/?p=1003#comment-1510 Hmmmmm....*finger to temple* I don't agree with Guido the Dweedo's mentality, but I see where he gets his perspective: From his PANTS. That, obvioiusly, is the head with which he is thinking.*nodding* Discourse can define gender. It can create gender in certain situations... What it can't accomplish (even in his hopeful little mind) is fix what I call "Douche-Bag-itis". Unfortunately....the rest of us are the ones who suffer when another is plagued with the disorder...and no amount of discourse (or coaching) can fix it. He plays the game...and even if he wins (by his own definition) he's a loser. ------------ Douch-Bag-Itis? Ian you are fucking hilarious! and brilliant! And I love this particularly: "Discourse can define gender... it can create gender in certain situations." Your comment really crystallized for me proof of the social construction of gender. Specifically -- gender as performativity, as coined by Judith Butler. Yup, I agree -- the guy is a douchebag. But, Ian, I haven't returned his text messages for almost half a year now and he's still texting me. Over Christmas he was practically begging -- and now he's offering $ too. I think he may be lonely. SERVES HIM RIGHT asshole! Cassandra. Hmmmmm….*finger to temple* I don’t agree with Guido the Dweedo’s mentality, but I see where he gets his perspective: From his PANTS. That, obvioiusly, is the head with which he is thinking.*nodding* Discourse can define gender. It can create gender in certain situations… What it can’t accomplish (even in his hopeful little mind) is fix what I call “Douche-Bag-itis”. Unfortunately….the rest of us are the ones who suffer when another is plagued with the disorder…and no amount of discourse (or coaching) can fix it. He plays the game…and even if he wins (by his own definition) he’s a loser.
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Douch-Bag-Itis? Ian you are fucking hilarious! and brilliant! And I love this particularly: “Discourse can define gender… it can create gender in certain situations.” Your comment really crystallized for me proof of the social construction of gender. Specifically — gender as performativity, as coined by Judith Butler. Yup, I agree — the guy is a douchebag. But, Ian, I haven’t returned his text messages for almost half a year now and he’s still texting me. Over Christmas he was practically begging — and now he’s offering $ too. I think he may be lonely. SERVES HIM RIGHT asshole! Cassandra.

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