Comments on: Be My Bitch?!? http://www.cassandragorgeous.com/2009/12/16/898/ sex.    like you never expected.    so very san francisco. Sat, 14 Jan 2012 06:41:43 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Brian http://www.cassandragorgeous.com/2009/12/16/898/comment-page-1/#comment-1434 Brian Fri, 18 Dec 2009 15:24:28 +0000 http://www.cassandragorgeous.com/?p=898#comment-1434 Hmmmmm...well, Cass this is a close call for me between two interpretations and I've tried to put myself in both his and your position in order to pic one. In one interpretation Don wants to be a tranny and wants you to take responsibility for his transition. In another interpretation Don is just trying to satisfy his fetish for being dominated and emasculated until he reaches some limit. Judging by items from a previous post about Don (eg. He wanted to spend the night with you while not dressed as Cassandra.) I tend to favor the later interpretation. He probably needs to be forced to perform humiliating and embarrassing acts of emasculation because it offers the most intense emotional experience for him. In other words, he gets off from emasculation and not feminization per se. For him, sexual bliss is defined by being the crossdressed bitch of a gay CD. His requests may seem very theatrical to many people but to him it is primal to his sexual satisfaction. If you can't find a way to combine his fetish with your preferences then eventually your compen$ation might not be worth the burden of having to provide fresh new erotic thrills for him. One suggestion is to have him buy some false breast to wear around. Maybe if you "force" him to wear panties until your next meeting he'll be more content. Can you imagine him telling his girlfriend why he's wearing pink panties and false breasts when they are together - "My transvestite mistress forces me to." - it would be like a castity belt (unless he does this already :-)). If that's not enough for him, game over. :-) Brian --------------- Brian... I agree. After reading all the comments I've arrived to share your conclusion: DD likes to take it to the limit of emasculation to thrill him. Hormones is just crazy talk. Regarding his girlfriend... it seems like his days with biological women are over. He says he can't get hard with a girl unless he's in love with her. He really likes CD, TV's, TG's (his favorite combo is boobs with cocks). He'll be back for a stretch after next April. If I'm still doing this by then I'll definitely keep you guys updated... Who is the real Don Draper? LOL, C Hmmmmm…well, Cass this is a close call for me between two interpretations and I’ve tried to put myself in both his and your position in order to pic one.

In one interpretation Don wants to be a tranny and wants you to take responsibility for his transition. In another interpretation Don is just trying to satisfy his fetish for being dominated and emasculated until he reaches some limit.

Judging by items from a previous post about Don (eg. He wanted to spend the night with you while not dressed as Cassandra.) I tend to favor the later interpretation.

He probably needs to be forced to perform humiliating and embarrassing acts of emasculation because it offers the most intense emotional experience for him. In other words, he gets off from emasculation and not feminization per se. For him, sexual bliss is defined by being the crossdressed bitch of a gay CD.

His requests may seem very theatrical to many people but to him it is primal to his sexual satisfaction. If you can’t find a way to combine his fetish with your preferences then eventually your compen$ation might not be worth the burden of having to provide fresh new erotic thrills for him.

One suggestion is to have him buy some false breast to wear around. Maybe if you “force” him to wear panties until your next meeting he’ll be more content. Can you imagine him telling his girlfriend why he’s wearing pink panties and false breasts when they are together – “My transvestite mistress forces me to.” – it would be like a castity belt (unless he does this already :-) ). If that’s not enough for him, game over.

:-)
Brian
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Brian… I agree. After reading all the comments I’ve arrived to share your conclusion: DD likes to take it to the limit of emasculation to thrill him. Hormones is just crazy talk. Regarding his girlfriend… it seems like his days with biological women are over. He says he can’t get hard with a girl unless he’s in love with her. He really likes CD, TV’s, TG’s (his favorite combo is boobs with cocks). He’ll be back for a stretch after next April. If I’m still doing this by then I’ll definitely keep you guys updated… Who is the real Don Draper? LOL, C

]]> By: morgan http://www.cassandragorgeous.com/2009/12/16/898/comment-page-1/#comment-1425 morgan Thu, 17 Dec 2009 17:59:55 +0000 http://www.cassandragorgeous.com/?p=898#comment-1425 I kinda discounted the hormones thing. I thought that was just crazy talk - one too many porn fantasies. But I don't know DD so that could have been serious. The only thing I really saw was DD has a fantasy of being used as a whore. He wants you to whore him out, but if it isn't something you enjoy I just don't see it happening. --------------- Morgan -- thank you so much. I think you really nailed it with this comment. It seems to be the general sentiment with all the comments that DD's hormones fantasy was just crazy talk. I think you're right that his real fantasy is to be used as a whore. I have no problem whoring him out, but it's the whole hormone talk that really threw me for a loop. Shocked the hell out of me, but apparently all my readers saw right through it. Now... an even more important question: do you think men will want to pay for the 70's Spinal Tap aging rocker TV look? C I kinda discounted the hormones thing. I thought that was just crazy talk – one too many porn fantasies. But I don’t know DD so that could have been serious. The only thing I really saw was DD has a fantasy of being used as a whore. He wants you to whore him out, but if it isn’t something you enjoy I just don’t see it happening.
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Morgan — thank you so much. I think you really nailed it with this comment. It seems to be the general sentiment with all the comments that DD’s hormones fantasy was just crazy talk. I think you’re right that his real fantasy is to be used as a whore. I have no problem whoring him out, but it’s the whole hormone talk that really threw me for a loop. Shocked the hell out of me, but apparently all my readers saw right through it. Now… an even more important question: do you think men will want to pay for the 70′s Spinal Tap aging rocker TV look? C

]]> By: Ian http://www.cassandragorgeous.com/2009/12/16/898/comment-page-1/#comment-1420 Ian Thu, 17 Dec 2009 13:48:52 +0000 http://www.cassandragorgeous.com/?p=898#comment-1420 Oh yeah....and he's doing what's called "Topping from the bottom" Steering where HE wants it to go by leading You to the next evolutionary step in his fantasy. ---------------- Ian -- what ever happened to vanilla tranny sex. Won't anyone settle for just giving me blowjobs and bending over anymore? I tell you, it's all because of the internet. Too much! TOO MUCH! C Oh yeah….and he’s doing what’s called “Topping from the bottom” Steering where HE wants it to go by leading You to the next evolutionary step in his fantasy.
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Ian — what ever happened to vanilla tranny sex. Won’t anyone settle for just giving me blowjobs and bending over anymore? I tell you, it’s all because of the internet. Too much! TOO MUCH! C

]]> By: Ian http://www.cassandragorgeous.com/2009/12/16/898/comment-page-1/#comment-1419 Ian Thu, 17 Dec 2009 13:46:08 +0000 http://www.cassandragorgeous.com/?p=898#comment-1419 I have to agree with you Cassandra, for the most part, concerning your response to Morgan. He trusts you completely (obviously, else he would not be so eager to let you steer his life (or "transformation") so completely. I agree with Morgan in that it can be a positive thing (and for both of you if played properly). Is there any chance he has someone in mind to do this roleplay with *already*? I mean....when I have a fantasy and bring it up to S/someone, I already have the next step thought out and nearly (if not) planned. Perhaps he just wants you to orchestrate it. (Again, he should own up to it, making you a party to it, rather than simply an unknowing accomplice) Regardless, you should educate him on the pros and cons of all involved. My advice: No makeup or wigs or hot clothes. Sit him down and ask what his superiors in the forestry service might do if they saw his tits. Love your patience...AND your frustration, girlie.*wink* Thanks for sharing. ---------------- Ian: I know -- he has his job to consider! I can't imagine him hiking the trails very well in platform stilettos. I tell you, Ian, I used to think there has to be a book offer on my life, but now I think maybe the real stars are guys like DON. I know it doesn't shock any of you (who I venture to guess may harbor a bit of the same impulses) but trust me, it shocked the hell out of me when he told me his female hormone fantasy -- and it'll shock the hell out of America. Random House -- CALL ME! This is a best-seller! Cass I have to agree with you Cassandra, for the most part, concerning your response to Morgan. He trusts you completely (obviously, else he would not be so eager to let you steer his life (or “transformation”) so completely. I agree with Morgan in that it can be a positive thing (and for both of you if played properly). Is there any chance he has someone in mind to do this roleplay with *already*? I mean….when I have a fantasy and bring it up to S/someone, I already have the next step thought out and nearly (if not) planned. Perhaps he just wants you to orchestrate it. (Again, he should own up to it, making you a party to it, rather than simply an unknowing accomplice) Regardless, you should educate him on the pros and cons of all involved. My advice: No makeup or wigs or hot clothes. Sit him down and ask what his superiors in the forestry service might do if they saw his tits. Love your patience…AND your frustration, girlie.*wink* Thanks for sharing.
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Ian: I know — he has his job to consider! I can’t imagine him hiking the trails very well in platform stilettos. I tell you, Ian, I used to think there has to be a book offer on my life, but now I think maybe the real stars are guys like DON. I know it doesn’t shock any of you (who I venture to guess may harbor a bit of the same impulses) but trust me, it shocked the hell out of me when he told me his female hormone fantasy — and it’ll shock the hell out of America. Random House — CALL ME! This is a best-seller! Cass

]]> By: morgan http://www.cassandragorgeous.com/2009/12/16/898/comment-page-1/#comment-1415 morgan Thu, 17 Dec 2009 04:50:04 +0000 http://www.cassandragorgeous.com/?p=898#comment-1415 DD wants to please you. Right now, he has little interest in going out and dressing for himself. He gets a rush when someone uses him. If you really like the idea of helping him in his transformation vanilla to whore it can be really positive. ----------------- Morgan, Honey, I respectfully DISAGREE. Him taking hormones has *nothing* to do with "pleasing" me. It's his own fantasy, his own fetish, his own desires, that he's projecting onto ME! I'm fine with everything he wants to do but I think he should own up to it instead of saying it's <strong>for me</strong>. Because it's not for me. Starting hormones is serious business. I think he needs to ask himself if he's really TG or if it's just a sexual fetish. If it's the latter, then own up to it rather than making it seem like <strong>I</strong> forced him into it. That's all. I still like the guy. The wonders never cease with my customers, that's all. C DD wants to please you. Right now, he has little interest in going out and dressing for himself. He gets a rush when someone uses him. If you really like the idea of helping him in his transformation vanilla to whore it can be really positive.
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Morgan, Honey, I respectfully DISAGREE. Him taking hormones has *nothing* to do with “pleasing” me. It’s his own fantasy, his own fetish, his own desires, that he’s projecting onto ME! I’m fine with everything he wants to do but I think he should own up to it instead of saying it’s for me. Because it’s not for me. Starting hormones is serious business. I think he needs to ask himself if he’s really TG or if it’s just a sexual fetish. If it’s the latter, then own up to it rather than making it seem like I forced him into it. That’s all. I still like the guy. The wonders never cease with my customers, that’s all. C

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