Savage Love, Part Deux
So… picking up where we left off.
After Stout Man, I opened the door to my CL casual encounters date. He was African American. Right away, I thought to myself, there goes any hope of me receiving a blowjob.
I’ve dated a few African American guys as Cassandra. My experience has been that they NEVER give head. They come to get fucked and to get fucked only. Perhaps the thinking is that, since they’re paying for it, they shouldn’t have to go down on me too. It makes sense – I’m certainly not faulting them. Or maybe black guys want really petite Asian Tgirls and I’m not the look they want. In any case, I’ve never had great mind-blowing sex with a black guy.
Not getting blown makes Cassandra one very petulant prostitute.
Besides, this is what Reuben and I absolutely agree on: white boys give the best head, hands (or should I say, heads) down.
That was my assessment, until I met Mr. Black Athlete. True to his email, he had a gorgeous body. We kissed for a while and then to my surprise he kissed down to my neck, down my torso, until his head was buried in my crotch. I couldn’t see what he was doing with his mouth but I felt my cock being planted with little heart-shaped kisses.
Mr. Black Athlete proceeded to give me probably one of the best blowjobs of my life. A lot of guys write me to say they give the best blowjobs. That’s usually a red-flag that they don’t. They *think* they give the best head because they’ve perfected a technique. And usually that technique is nothing more than a rapid up-and-down motion with their mouth or simply being able to deep throat.
But giving the best head is like flirting, and then going on a date, with after-dinner drinks progressing to full on intercourse – all expressed between your mouth and my cock. It’s not a one-size-fits-all technique; it’s treating each cock like a new exploration. That’s why I love beginners: they give pretty awesome head. They’ve been thinking about it forever, jerking off to the fantasy, and when they finally taste cock for their first time their whole body shudders. They really take the time to taste it and make love to it. My cock and their mouth go on a journey of discovery together.
It was like that with Mr. Black Athlete. In fact, his blowjob was so good it gave me inspirations about how I can be a better top. Because it’s not just about the pounding (although it’s one pretty important aspect). There’s an overall artistry. He communicated with my cock.
When you slow the sex down, really slow it down, to where he feels and reacts to my every shiver and moan, it’s so intense. It becomes, dare I say it, a love-making of sorts.
There are blowjobs, and then there are BLOWJOBS. Just like there’s fried chicken, and then there’s Popeye’s Fried Chicken that came right out of the deep fryer. It takes your breath away. And leaves you with the simple thought: Life Is Good.
At the very least, I think I can improve my skills as a top, too.
I can be a better lover.
Tags: race
I’ve only givin head once, it was to a black tgirl, she was shocked when I said it was the first time, I think I liked it as much as her….maybe more
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Well, Mike, I would like to be the second tgirl you give head to. Make me feel GOOOOOOOD…. C
I agree, I’ve had the same experience with the Black men–they don’t like giving head. That’s OK. I’d rather a man worship my feet anyway.
Miss you Cass. Hope to see you soon.
-Ruby
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I’d like for my guys to worship every single part of my body. But especially my shecock. Damn I do like getting head. I missed you too, boo. Let’s play dress up again soon. C
Hi Cass,
Sounds like you had a great time getting the “show on the road,” but I missed you. Great to have you back.
I love giving head; and worshiping feet; and licking… I know I’d love communicating with your c**k with my native tongue – french.
I didn’t know that Black men have a rep for not wanting to give head. Maybe most of these guys aren’t comfortable bottoming for non-black tgirls/tvs since it might violate stereotypes about Black male sexual dominance and masculinity. Most ads by non-Black posters are for dominant BBC, not for submissive LBC. There is a lot of disinterest in society for Black-male sexual submission. What do you think?
Mr. Black Athlete may be a new trend or an exception to the rule. I say it’s time for “new rules.” When in a down economy do any “job” you can.
BTW did you pound Mr. Black Athlete?
xoxoxo,
Brian
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Brian… French, you say? S’il vous plait… asseoir toi sur mon visage! LOL. I wanted to pound him, I swear we were getting around to it, but it felt sooo good I just kept pushing it back, thinking to myself, just five minutes longer of receiving this glorious head, and next thing I know Mr. Black Athlete came all over my calves. He couldn’t help himself. Giving head to Cassandra is that orgasmic of an experience.
As to why the other black men never gave me head… I think you may have touched on some of the issues. I don’t know the exact reasons. Honestly, I haven’t spent much time speculating. If they don’t give me head… I’m really not that interested in figuring out why they lack the motivation, you know? Now, if they gave me great head, THAT’S a different story…. C
Bien sur mon ami.
Brian
Wrong side of the country, prob too expesive too, unless im cute to u, teehee, for real tho
C
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Mike — I’m worth every Benjamin…
cassandra, this crossdressing african-american can make you forget all about mr. black athlete. i will make your toes curl; you and your candy will be treated to an out of this world pleasure!!!
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Morgan… promises, promises. Make me feel good, bitch! XOXOXO Cassandra
time and place bitch, time and place, and i won’t throw-up xoxoxo
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Oh Morgan… who knew people can throw up giving head? Sometimes I think I must be the perpetually suffering Top Tgirl but maybe, just maybe, it happens to all of us? Cass