Comments on: Uncharted Territory http://www.cassandragorgeous.com/2009/09/27/664/ sex.    like you never expected.    so very san francisco. Sat, 14 Jan 2012 06:41:43 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Ian http://www.cassandragorgeous.com/2009/09/27/664/comment-page-1/#comment-1189 Ian Sat, 10 Oct 2009 13:32:04 +0000 http://www.cassandragorgeous.com/?p=664#comment-1189 I believe we (your customers and readers) are simply the bell-shaped curve. There are extremes on either end and a whole lot of combinations in between. I don't think the numbers matter so much as the connection or relation the individuals find with you (or your profession by proxy). It's about the individual psychology that endears. For some it's a sympathetic connection, some a sexual one, others just curiosity. If there were a majority, I think it would be the "curious ones" looking for a safe way to explore another lifestyle. I'm not a crossdresser, though I have had tights/pantyhose on before. (take a guess, go ahead....I'll be honest about why) I am bi, but not closeted to my g/f about it. Oooh yeah....Cassandra is not the only one who explores.*wicked grin* -------------------- Ian! *HUG* thank you. You are pretty awesome. Your girlfriend is lucky. *I* am lucky to have you as a reader. Do me a favor and always be honest with me: let me know when I start venturing down the wrong path, k? Cass I believe we (your customers and readers) are simply the bell-shaped curve. There are extremes on either end and a whole lot of combinations in between. I don’t think the numbers matter so much as the connection or relation the individuals find with you (or your profession by proxy). It’s about the individual psychology that endears. For some it’s a sympathetic connection, some a sexual one, others just curiosity. If there were a majority, I think it would be the “curious ones” looking for a safe way to explore another lifestyle. I’m not a crossdresser, though I have had tights/pantyhose on before. (take a guess, go ahead….I’ll be honest about why) I am bi, but not closeted to my g/f about it. Oooh yeah….Cassandra is not the only one who explores.*wicked grin*
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Ian! *HUG* thank you. You are pretty awesome. Your girlfriend is lucky. *I* am lucky to have you as a reader. Do me a favor and always be honest with me: let me know when I start venturing down the wrong path, k? Cass

]]> By: Ruby http://www.cassandragorgeous.com/2009/09/27/664/comment-page-1/#comment-1185 Ruby Mon, 05 Oct 2009 09:35:51 +0000 http://www.cassandragorgeous.com/?p=664#comment-1185 Life is an adventure, dear. I'm crossing my fingers for you and Don... -Ruby -------------- I guess his nickname is Don now... I was going to nickname him Lone Ranger because he works as a Park Ranger and it must get awfully lonely in the National Parks (I don't picture many trannies running among the bisons in Yellowstone,, hehe). But Don Draper he shall be... and maybe I get to be Bette Draper. January Jones is sooo lovely, don't you think? Life is an adventure, dear. I’m crossing my fingers for you and Don…

-Ruby
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I guess his nickname is Don now… I was going to nickname him Lone Ranger because he works as a Park Ranger and it must get awfully lonely in the National Parks (I don’t picture many trannies running among the bisons in Yellowstone,, hehe). But Don Draper he shall be… and maybe I get to be Bette Draper. January Jones is sooo lovely, don’t you think?

]]> By: Ian http://www.cassandragorgeous.com/2009/09/27/664/comment-page-1/#comment-1147 Ian Mon, 28 Sep 2009 13:50:34 +0000 http://www.cassandragorgeous.com/?p=664#comment-1147 I think you are who you are, and you are someone else too. Just as Don is who he is....but he is someone else. Some may call the pursuit of being another person a "distraction", but I think it is more an "evolution". We try new things as we are interested in them.....new chapters in the book of us. Where your story goes (and with whom) now is going to be based on the introspective thought (truth of what you want) and outside stimuli (possibility) you allow to influence that thought process. Perhaps you won't get invested as Cass, as you've said Is it a possibility you will allow yourself to get invested as your..Self? (As I don't know your real name) I think, even in considering him to spend the night.....you already have. You mentioned in a previous post "Self Actualization"~wink and smile~ -------------------- Ian... This rabbit hole is deeper than I thought. I'm trying to understand you guys. But the more I know, the less I'm sure of. What's the motivation for straight men to crossdress and assume the role of women? Is there an element of transgenderism here? If I took a poll of all of my customers/readers, do you think most of them are closeted crossdressers too? Are you? All the literature seems to be focused on the MTF transgenders, but nothing seems to be written about the men who admire and chase MTF's. What's going on with these men? Cassandra explores... :) I think you are who you are, and you are someone else too. Just as Don is who he is….but he is someone else.

Some may call the pursuit of being another person a “distraction”, but I think it is more an “evolution”. We try new things as we are interested in them…..new chapters in the book of us. Where your story goes (and with whom) now is going to be based on the introspective thought (truth of what you want) and outside stimuli (possibility) you allow to influence that thought process.

Perhaps you won’t get invested as Cass, as you’ve said Is it a possibility you will allow yourself to get invested as your..Self? (As I don’t know your real name) I think, even in considering him to spend the night…..you already have. You mentioned in a previous post “Self Actualization”~wink and smile~
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Ian… This rabbit hole is deeper than I thought. I’m trying to understand you guys. But the more I know, the less I’m sure of. What’s the motivation for straight men to crossdress and assume the role of women? Is there an element of transgenderism here? If I took a poll of all of my customers/readers, do you think most of them are closeted crossdressers too? Are you? All the literature seems to be focused on the MTF transgenders, but nothing seems to be written about the men who admire and chase MTF’s. What’s going on with these men? Cassandra explores… :)

]]> By: Brian http://www.cassandragorgeous.com/2009/09/27/664/comment-page-1/#comment-1145 Brian Mon, 28 Sep 2009 12:13:29 +0000 http://www.cassandragorgeous.com/?p=664#comment-1145 I think this is leading to a climax of irony for Cassandra. A "straight man" who desires to be in a traditionally-womans roll (bottom) with a man who dresses as a woman. This is a very dominant experience for Cassandra and very submissive (intimate) one for "Don." This may progress to "Don" dressing as a woman (Donna?) while in a woman's traditional sex-role, in bed with (Kass?) an uncrossdressed Cassandra. This is a real twist on the kink - wow. It will be incredibly hot and intimate for him and some exceptionally great sex for you. You'll be thoroughly TOPPING this guy physically, emotionally and psychologically. I think it would be hottest if you have him just wear the lingerie. Sometimes you resolve an irony when you take it to its limits...hmmm. In other words, sometimes a straight guy just needs to be a gay. It could be over-the-top for you. xoxo, Brian ---------------- Brian Brian Brian... somehow I think all of you guys know more than you're letting on. This is a little secret men's club. Nothing I write about seems to shock you guys (as it does me!). Don Draper wanting to crossdress and be pounded like a little girl... who'd ever believe it. And, yet, you guys think it's the most natural thing in the world. I sure hope my next encounter with "Don" (or he may be Bette Draper by then) will be as hot as our first time. I will certainly fill you in on the details. Thanks for reading, Brian. Cass I think this is leading to a climax of irony for Cassandra.

A “straight man” who desires to be in a traditionally-womans roll (bottom) with a man who dresses as a woman. This is a very dominant experience for Cassandra and very submissive (intimate) one for “Don.”

This may progress to “Don” dressing as a woman (Donna?) while in a woman’s traditional sex-role, in bed with (Kass?) an uncrossdressed Cassandra. This is a real twist on the kink – wow.

It will be incredibly hot and intimate for him and some exceptionally great sex for you. You’ll be thoroughly TOPPING this guy physically, emotionally and psychologically. I think it would be hottest if you have him just wear the lingerie.

Sometimes you resolve an irony when you take it to its limits…hmmm. In other words, sometimes a straight guy just needs to be a gay. It could be over-the-top for you.

xoxo,
Brian
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Brian Brian Brian… somehow I think all of you guys know more than you’re letting on. This is a little secret men’s club. Nothing I write about seems to shock you guys (as it does me!). Don Draper wanting to crossdress and be pounded like a little girl… who’d ever believe it. And, yet, you guys think it’s the most natural thing in the world. I sure hope my next encounter with “Don” (or he may be Bette Draper by then) will be as hot as our first time. I will certainly fill you in on the details. Thanks for reading, Brian. Cass

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