So Reuben is crazy in love with someone he met and they’re going up to Russian River for the weekend. And Justin, my other roommate, is out at Lake Tahoe. Right before Reuben left, he asked me: Cassandra, you’re going to be all alone this weekend.  Will you be OK? And right before Justin left, [...]

Goodbyes are hard, aren’t they?  My eyes are welling up with tears as I write this.  But all good things must come to an end.  People come into your life, and people go.  Sometimes, when you become so comfortable with someone, and you accept all their idiosyncrasies – the good and the bad – you think they will be [...]

It really is true what people say.  I just played with my first red head.   Except that it wasn’t really red.  More like orange. Neon orange. Fluorescent. It may even glow in the dark it was so bright.  If you’ve ever played with a redhead you’ll know what I’m talking about: the coloring is so intense. [...]

I used to fantasize a lot when I was a kid.  Up until Junior High School, I couldn’t wait to go to bed every night so I can let my mind wander.  Drift away.  I would sketch out the basic plot lines during the day — the location, the people, the catalyst.  The Sahara Desert was [...]

This fan mail reads: >>>>>>>>>>>>>>  Hi, there.  I am a college student over here in WA.  I must say…your blog entries are very hot.  I can’t even count how many times I’ve pleasured myself to the image of me worshiping your candy and being fucked by it.  I’ve always considered myself 100% straight and have [...]

A couple weeks ago I got a most interesting proposal.  Over the phone, the guy asked if I could fuck him.  That part is easy.  I told him he came to the right place.  Then he asked if I could also fuck his girlfriend.  When I expressed hesitation, he asked if his girlfriend could just watch. Their [...]

My first (and only) boyfriend was a Cornell graduate who majored in Math.  He used to work  for an internet company, writing algorithms for advertising campaigns which targeted specific consumers in order to maximize returns.  At the time, I was blown away by his explanation that, in the age of technology/information, advertising is done through math.  The right algorithm can calculate if [...]

I don’t know about your household, but ever since Michael Jackson passed away Reuben has been playing Michael nonstop on our living room iPod.  My favorite song so far from the rotation has been Ben, a song from a very young Michael when he still sang with the Jackson 5.  If you’ve never heard this song before, [...]